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Event Title: When A Nickle Is 25…
Hosting Organization: OKCUPID
Starting Date: 01/20/2022
Ending Date: 01/20/2022
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Description: I know my boys got bottle service coming, so it’s no point to buy a drink while I’m waiting on them. So, I just chill by the bar. I’m early and it’s actually looking kind of empty in the club right now. It’s some chicks dancing with each other but that’s about it. I mean they’re cute, but how do you approach the only girls dancing in an empty ass club? Yeah, so I don’t…. I just chill at the bar….

Eventually, my boys get there. We walk around the club a couple of times (I do not know why… it was pretty empty still)… and then wind up in VIP, bottles on the way…

Once we’re in VIP pouring up, we’re just chillin the booth. I’m feeling kind of lame, cuz I’ve been at the club almost an hour now, and haven’t talked to a chick yet… neither have any of the other dudes I’m with though. This isn’t going to be some wasted night, is it?

I don’t know when or how it happened, but at some point the club gets packed…

I decide to get started and walk around opening sets to warm-up. I also go back to the VIP section and chill with my boys from time to time. At one point, I kept tapping a chick on the other side of the VIP rope on her opposite shoulder, getting her to turn around and wonder who the hell was tapping her… don’t ask me why… I don’t know…. hell, why not? At some point I open some chick who looks bored, “You look like you’re having too much fun!” She laughs, “I don’t like the music they’re playing!”

“Oh, really, what song do you want to hear?”

“I want to hear Wacka Flocka – No Hands!”

What? Is she serious? I didn’t even know that song got play like that… I only know of it because it’s on Wale’s mixtape….

I make fun of her and then move around. The next song that comes on is ‘No Hands’…. I look around to try to find her and re-open her, but I actually don’t even remember which chick I was just talking to who said that…

I move around, open a couple of other chicks. Eventually, I catch a chick at the bar, who seems to have high interest. She tells me her zodiac sign (I forgot what it was though)….. and I gave her an ugly face… “Why what are you?” “Aries”

“What? Really? My ex was an Aries! Why’d you make that face?!? I get along good with Aries’!!!”

Conversation continues. It’s going alright, I wind up leaned against the bar with my arm around her, talking to her. My boy Levi walks by and kind of pinches me in the stomach or something, just an “I see you!” type of gesture…

But, then, I don’t know what happens… the conversation just stalls out. Then, we’re kind of just standing there at the bar, my arm still around her…

She starts talking to her friends… but, my arm is still around her…. umm… this feels odd, what to do? what to do? Don’t want to seem try-hard or needy, but I had her… am I losing her now? I’m not sure… I try to just play it cool and not give her any attention and just let her talk to her friends… she turns back to me, “I’m about to go with my friends, it was nice to meat you…” I think I’m done, I just kind of grunt and shrug my shoulders or something, not feeling defeated, just surprised though…

Then, she says…. “You’re not going to ask me for my number?!?” I just stare at her blankly….

All of the sudden she warms back up, all smiley and shit…. “Take my number, take my number!”

I pull my phone out… but it dies… right in front of her… “My phone’s dead.” I shrug my shoulders and put it back in my pocket!

“Oh my gosh! Your phone sucks! Here, give me your number….” She pulls her phone out, I give her my number, she texts me right there and shows me, “See, I texted you, so you can have my number…” The text read, ”Hey, it’s [her name] from [club].”

We wind up talking some more… Then her friends come back… I didn’t even realize they left her. “Look, your friends are over here leaving you…” “I know! That’s because I’m too busy dealing with you!”

“Naw, don’t go blaming your problems on me.”

“Whatever..” She laughs and smiles and starts to leave with her friends…. “Call me!!”

I head back to the VIP. Damn… all four bottles are empty… guess I’m done drinking…

I see Nickle with a few chicks… one of them is a chick I could’ve fucked two years ago, but was too dumb to make it happen…

…I just never played it right. I’d just text her occasionally trying to invite myself over right then and there, with excuses like, “I’m over here by your apartments, mind if I stop by” and she’d always respond with, “I’m not at home right now.” I never tried to take her on a date or set anything up in advance – yeah, my game was kind of lacking. Eventually, after a few tries of inviting myself over right then and there, I just gave up trying.

I don’t even bother really talking to her. Her friend is cuter, and she looks familiar too… ”You look familiar…” I know, not a great opening line, but at this point I didn’t give a fuck…

“Yeah, I’m from [city we just left].”

“Oh, you went to [our college]?”

“No, I’m just from [city we just left].”

Nickle is right there, “She’s from [city we just left], bro.”

No shit, sherlock, I just heard her say that like twice…. I start to fuck with her…”Wait, you’re from [city we just left]? Who the hell wants to be from there?”

I get a little playful back in forth going, but then the chick I could’ve fucked like 2 years ago comes from across the VIP section… “what are you over here saying to my friend?”

Man…. fuck this shit, I’m out of here. I move around with Levi…. we head to the dancefloor… not to dance, just to fuck with chicks.

He trys to talk to some girl and gets blown out/rejected instantly… pretty bad too… bitch shield must’ve been high…. ouch…

Not much else happened before the club closed down…. at 3. I don’t even know how they’re able to stay open until 3 when every other place closes at 2, but whatever….

We head outside the club, I shake Nickle’s hand and tell him happy birthday one more time and then I start to head back to my car. The chick I could’ve fucked two years ago sees me and says, “Are you okay? Be safe, please. You seem kind of fucked up.” Naw, I’m good… and, I head home…

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